Wednesday, December 28, 2005

Yikhil Shraybman dies, December 12, 2005

I just found out today that another one of my very important contacts in Kishinev died. What luck. He was 92, after all, but I mean, come on, I was going to call him tomorrow. I really just coudn't believe it. After hearing that my father's cousin Miron suddenly died of a heart attack in Kishinev (see below, Bad News from Kishinev) my family and I had awkwardly joked a bit about other contacts of mine suddenly dying.

Yikhil Shraybman was a very famous character in the world of Yiddish literature. He was apparently also a concert violinist. I had first heard of him from Boris Sandler, editor of The Yiddish Forward, an international Jewish newspaper based in New York. Shraybman was Sandler's mentor in Kishinev. From what Sandler told me about Shraybman, it seemed that he would really be an amazing resource for my project. First off, he had lived through what my grandfather had lived through and he had lived his whole life in Kishinev. Second, Shraybman was apparently very connected with Soviet and post-Soviet Jewish culture and intellectual life. He was going to be my connection to this world. I had never talked to him, but I couldn't wait to meet him. I mentioned to my parents that I was going to call him tomorrow, and they said they had heard something about some famous Yiddish writer dying so I did a Russian google search and found this article -- for those of you who can read Russian: http://www.sedmoykanal.com/news.php3?id=95750.
For those of you who can't read Russian, I'll quote parts of the translation:
- " Today, Jewish literature suffered an irreplaceable loss. In Kishinev at the age of 92 years a classic of Yiddish literature passed away, the laureate of many international literary rewards of Israel, USA and Europe, world acknowledged author and essayist Yikhil Shraybman."
- "
The untiring propagandist of native language, Ikhil Shraybman, upto his last hours, did not let his pen out of his hands, working on new miniatures for the cycle "after 90". These essays were being regularly published in the New York newspaper The Yiddish Forward."

It really is a pity that I never got to meet this man. A pity that I was only 2 months away from experiencing snipbits of my grandfather's life through the eyes of this writer. To me, this is a painful reminder of how fragile the people I will be talking to are, and how important it is for me to do this right now and do it well. Soon there will be no one left who remembers what the pogroms of the early 20th century were like in Ukraine and Moldova, and what it was like to be a Jew at that very difficult time during which my grandfather was growing up. Without a doubt, Shraybman would have been an awesome advisor for my project in Kishinev. December 12 was not just a sad day for Yiddish literature, and of course for Shraybman's family and many friends, but it was a sad day for me and for my grandfather.

Saturday, December 24, 2005

Passage Palace, Russian Restaurant


Yesterday I attended my parents' office holiday party at Passage (pronounced "pasaje") Palace, a Russian restaurant in Bensonhurst, Brooklyn. It was the most extravagent Russian banquet I've seen, though the food wasn't anything like traditional Russian. It was sort of a Russian-Japanese-French fusion, which the Brooklyn Russians seem to love. That layered thing is pate with some gelatin-based substance and the stuff in the middle is chicken liver. Just thought I'd post a few photos to give those of you who've never been to a Russian restaurant a sense of how ridiculous it all is. The food is never-ending, as is the dancing and the music. I really hope this is what Russia is like. Right.

Friday, December 16, 2005

My brain right now

Wednesday, December 14, 2005

My ITINERARY

Today was an amazing day. Suddenly I am not depressed, and instead I am excited. Finally.

After yelling at my parents about how all the advice they seem to give me for my trip is unsolicited, unproductive, and based solely on risk minimization, my father agreed to sit down with me and help me with my itinerary. I know that I'm old enough to make my own decisions, but I really expected them to collaborate more with me on this project. Don't get me wrong - they have been extremely helpful in asking everyone they know for contacts and calling these contacts for me (speaking to many of these people for the first time). It's just that their fear and worry about me being over there in scary Communist land has overtaken their ability to imagine what this might be like for me, leading them to avoid a lot of what I consider is important. So, today my father admitted this and decided to put his fear aside for an hour and help talk me through the dates and the itinerary. I imagine (I hope) that their involvement will decrease their fears of kidnap, rape, murder, and decapitation.

So here's my itinerary. Notice, my father suggested I go to Poland for a week, and I agreed that this was an awesome idea.

Israel: Jan 21 - Feb. 5
Kishinev: Feb 5 - Feb 26
Odessa: Feb 26 - March 12
Kiev: March 12 - April 1
Budapest (+): April 1 - April 15
Poland, Latvia, Lithuania, Estonia: April 15 - May 7
St. Petersburg: May 7 - July 15 (with a 1-week side trip to Moscow, and a few day trips to Petrozovodsk, Vyborg, and Novgorod)
Helsinki: July 7 - July 15
USA: July 15

Now you all have no excuse. Start planning your visits today.

Thursday, December 08, 2005

Update on Electronics

I have decided to forego the pocket PC for a Moleskin notebook and a pen. This decision was made after much deliberation, and with the advice of various friends and family members --some poets, some computer geeks, and some both. You know who you are. Thank you and no thank you.
I will use some of the extra money I have saved by not buying this little computer-like device to buy myself a nice little refurbished Canon Powershot SD200 Elph from B&H from the Hasidim. It's going to set me back about 200$ -- that's including the accessories and warranty I'm buying.

Sunday, December 04, 2005

Shopping Spree for Genya


Genya, in reponse to my asking him what he would like me to bring to him from the US, made up quite a lengthy list of items. I'm posting it here for fun and to recruit someone to join me on a mid-town shopping spree during the worst shopping and tourist days of the year. Keep in mind that the "Adidas Respect M.E." line is women's only and features pink, purple, and lots of fake bling.

Genya's Christmas Shopping list

  1. 3 t-shirts with “New York” on them for Genya (size M-L, 48), his brother (10 years), and a son of his friend (18 months).
  2. a cap from the “Adidas Respect Me” collection in dark blue or burgundy
  3. a Ranger’s cap or Islanders cap
  4. a Ranger’s souvenir like a puck
  5. some men’s magazine like GQ, Vanity Fair
  6. two more t-shirts with “I love New York” (for 3 year old kids)
I guess he thinks I’m Santa. Oh well, he's been a good boy helping me out with things and all, and his family will be putting me up, so I'll send him a huge Santa package.

UPDATE: Upon finding out it is a woman's only collection, Genya decided that he didn't want any "Missy" apparel.